How to Date With Onlyfans Models: Guide for Getting Over Insecurities

Just about every guy’s fantasy is to date a model. Back when TV, billboard print ads, and magazines were the only means men got served their favorite eye candy, the World Wide Web has become the ultimate visual global playground to admire the beauty of a woman personified in every culture.

But what kind of earthly creature gets to date a model? What sort of man is attractive to a woman defined by society’s standards as beautiful, sexy, and confident? This is why most guys won’t even cough up the courage to approach. A man must always deal with his insecurities first. Model or otherwise, when a perfect opportunity comes, a guy will either panic, freeze up, or mumble something incoherent. She gets weirded out and walks away. End of story.

Fantasy vs Reality

We are heavily bombarded with perfect images of men and women who may just as well seem unrealistic and unattainable. These are not the standards of real life. If this is what we all aspire to attain then we’re all living in a fantasy world and totally out of touch with reality. Being desired and desirable is not defined by some social interpretation of a “hot scale”. When pursuing the female species, physical appearances may momentarily lure the eye but it does not hold for long. Assertiveness in pursuing that hot Instagram model or even just the pretty girl next door may or may not even merit you the best response. What you see in movies does not always work. The meet-cute social media reels of a model and the regular guy you follow on your newsfeed could all be fluffed content. However, knowing how to discern your fantasy from your reality could be the story that can change your dating life.

Rules of Attraction

Being rich and famous is not the formula for attractiveness nor the recipe for dating a model. But having the qualities of a financially stable and well-liked person is a social status indication of the kind of people that gravitate towards you. A desirable male species who is consciously aware of himself and knows how to behave and maneuver the social jungles always stirs female curiosity. A woman’s curiosity is always a sign of interest. A piqued interest often leads to a strong sense of unexplained fascination and inclination. Women in general are psychologically aroused. Men, on the other hand, become physically assertive when aroused or driven with desire. This state of pursuit between a man and a woman is the determining factor of attraction. Insecure men as well as overconfident men may find themselves lured into a woman’s curiosity but will most often be the one who shuts down the kitty. Learning the rules of female attraction is the key to building confidence that could make you that guy who always seems to get dates with models.

Level-up Your Game

Status is a game changer for most women who are on the lookout for a potential date. When someone richer and more famous comes along … it’s game over. Dating a model means being able to see yourself as an equally attractive man who just happens to have status and a fat paycheck. It’s not what defines you. Your level of attractiveness should come from a place of genuine self-perception. Knowing who you are and carrying your true self as your armor is winning half the battle. Show up and be authentic. A woman’s attraction is defined by a brewing desire. Something that usually connotes long-term and a deep-level connection. Whether you’re looking for something serious or casual when getting on dates with models, remember the female psyche. Mind games are for the weak-minded. Always show your cards. Be honest with your intentions and be fearless of rejection. Your authentic self is what can get you laid, rejected, or snagged for life!

Making the Right Moves

A time-honored dating practice is rejection. Yes, everyone has been rejected at least once in their lifetime. But rejection means you get to move on and try again! Here are some dating tricks and strategies to help you maneuver through the autonomy of singlehood:

Never approach or ask a woman on a date if you’re not attracted to her. It saves you from the cringe later on.
Categorize your dates into 3 types: Swayable, On-the-fence, Resistant
Don’t waste your time with resistance. It just means they’re not into you.
When a woman is on the fence about you, you’re living in the grey zone for who knows how long.
Women will always play it safe. If you don’t show any clear interest – they won’t either.
Always find ways to evoke a response from women who tend to always stay neutral.
Overinvest only when you’re willing to lose
Learn a woman’s tell-tale signs of reciprocated attraction
Don’t act to seek a woman’s approval. Just be yourself and share your vulnerability.
Keep your momentum going. Always try to move things forward.

Dating Basics

Basic Practice #1 Living a lifestyle that exudes enrichment, creativity, and honesty. This means laying down your standards too. Being authentic about what you want and aligning your values with the women you date.

Basic Practice#2 Be interested and interesting! Explore and cultivate new ideas that can open doors for dating prospects. Develop a penchant for adventure so you can always find something amazing and exciting about life.

Basic Practice#3 Never be afraid to express yourself. Let your emotions show and speak what’s in your heart. Allow yourself to feel … and most importantly, make your dates feel that you have more than just a pulse to offer.

Basic Practice#4 Break your patterns. If what you’ve been doing doesn’t seem to work, just stop and shift. Stay consistent and always be accountable for your actions.

Basic Practice#5 Be bold but never aggressive. Learn how to approach women every day in different situations. You’ll find this becomes easier and makes you act more natural.

Basic Practice#6 Not all women are comfortable with flattery and even more so anything with a sexual undertone can drive them away. Tone down the creep. Quit the 20 questions and get a natural conversation flowing. Be random but tread lightly.

Where to Go and What to Do?

The dating game can get expensive if you’re clueless about what you want to get out of your dates. You’ve got your dating goals plotted down and perhaps one of them is getting as much skin contact as possible. You’re not going to get that from coffee dates while sitting across from each other at a Starbucks. Perhaps getting an ice cream down at the park and sitting by the benches could do the trick. If you’re both bookfiends, look for the quirkiest vintage bookstore and pick out books for each other to bring home and talk about on your next date.

Maybe watch an Improv then explore some local dive bars? Grab some pub grub and giggle some more. Netflix at your apartment? What about salsa dancing and apres mojitos then impress her with your coffee-making skills at your place?

The point is, dating women – whether they’re the hottest cam chic or your favorite OnlyFans girl – requires you to present yourself well and to be clear with your intentions. Don’t let your insecurities define your standards. Anxiety over who you are and who you’re not will always keep you from meeting and dating the women you deserve.